The flames not only engulfed the boy’s hand in their Germantown apartment in May 2020, but it spread from his torso to head, according to the Montgomery County Sheriff’s Office. Kimberly Tyler, 31, and her wife Chareese Snorgrass-Tyler then threw the victim in the shower. When a family member criticized Tyler’s actions, she played the victim card and wondered aloud why people were worried about the boy and not her, saying “nobody gives a f— about me.”