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"Hit me, I'll get in your face," Williamson shouted. "Hit me so your daughter can see. Hit me. Hit me. Daughter, please hit me."
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At the end of my first marriage, my ex used to pull that shit. We'd be arguing and she'd get right up in my face, nose to nose, and she'd start screaming, "Hit me, hit me! Would it make you feel like a big man? Go ahead and hit me, I fucking dare you!"
To this day, I don't thing she realizes how close she came to being flattened. I knew in my heart though that if I did, I wouldn't be able to stop.
yup. and that is the reason WHY you move at least 5 states away from your EX.
ReplyDeleteafter what she did to me. I was going to kill her. thank God I had a good friend talk me out of that. as he said to me. she not worth it and it's just "stuff".
from what I heard from the kids is she still "loves me" and would love to get back together.
yeah. right. she loves my house, truck and bank account !
walking away is much better in the long run and better for your mental health
and I did have a lot of nice and neat "stuff' I never get again. but in the end, it's just stuff.
dave in pa.
My first wife used to rip the buttons off my shirt and taunt me to hit her and one night she went too far and pushed the wrong button. Everything went blank and I beat the shit out of her, enough to go to the emergency room. Not something I'm proud of, but don't hit me if you don't expect to get hit back. It turns out she was bi-polar.
ReplyDeleteShe t'aint nufin, what was ain't no more. Taunts by a T'aint is simply an invite to LEO, lawyers and judges to dine free on your dime. May be hard to do but best punishment is equally simple; ignore the bitch - long time - all time.
ReplyDeleteUsed to be the rule around here was a $10K tab for a "mild" domestic disturbance situation. Would hate to say what inflation has done to that number.
DeleteI never struck any of my wives but, damn if I didn't break a few things in the house.
ReplyDeleteFortunately neither of my ex wives did that but I did have a girlfriend that did.... You gotta protect yourself from women like that, no matter who hit who first 9.999 times out of 10 the guy is the one going to jail..
ReplyDeleteJD
That's exactly what my ex was pushing for. Unfortunately for her, she ran her mouth and told me so, making it easier for me to keep my cool.
DeleteSmart man
DeleteJD
You know Kenny, if you had just killed the bitch you’d be out of jail by now.
DeleteI’m convinced that most women need an absolute beat down in their life, simply to show them why they shouldn’t act like that.
Anon@ 9:13...That was my late brothers favorite adage, If I'd killed her when I met her, I'd be getting out today. That was after his ex got his 100 acre tree farm sold on the courthouse steps to pay her off and also to pay her shyster lawyer.
DeleteTony Soprano could resist.
ReplyDeleteStarker here,
ReplyDeleteMy neighbor had a shrew for a wife. One night they were out drinking. She started her shit. He left her at the bar & went home. She got a ride home. She then cornered him in the house and continued to harangue, harass, & go at him. He snapped & strangled her. He was convicted and spent nearly 20 years in prison. I'm sure he doesn't think it was worth it.
High school girlfriend confessed to cheating on me, said "You can hit me now if you want". (never did) Now a lifetime later (and exposure to the internet), I wonder... was she into S&M? May have missed an opportunity?
ReplyDeleteFirst ex (before I proposed) totaled my truck (that's a story!). Sitting there in a neck brace, her expression broke my heart... "Please don't hit me." ... I could never. Proposed a week later, fun marriage until we realized we just couldn't live together every day.
Current wife did throw a screwdriver at me, missed! Never hit any, did have to replace an exploded bedroom door once. I was impressed how that door came apart.
Violence is never the answer, but sometimes it is a great question.
Word to the wise as I learned in my last couple explosive encounters with my ex and her bsc mom, video the ordeal. It took many years and a lot of broken belongings, mine by the way, before I found the calm somewhere inside to get smart enough to protect myself.
ReplyDeleteand one other bit. about a year or so AFTER the divorce. she showed up on the front porch of
ReplyDeletewhere I had moved to (Philly) . all sorry and that bullshit. and this was on Friday after I picked up the kids. and of course the kids where happy as hell that "mommy" was back.
she heated up one of the meals I had made in advance and acted like everything was 'fine" this went on until Sunday. that is when I told her she had to get a job or go to school for a job but you not going to sit around my house. then. she told me i have no right to tell her what to do in life. GREAT. you out of here ! so, all day long lots of crying and bullshit.
I dropped the kids off at school and stopped at the bank. pulled out 1500 or so.
took her ass right to the airport and got her on a NON STOP flight back to where she came from. check her in and watch the plane take off.
then I went home. my parents wanted to know "what happened" I told them.
my dad said to me "I would have put her on a bus" to that , I said, you can get off a bus or train. but there no way in hell you getting off a non stop plane.
best 1200 bucks I ever spent really.
as my lawyer said to me. in Philly, she could have a needle marks all over her arms and the judge will still give her the kids. dave in pa.